feat: Add generic database connection mechanism

[sbernauer]

Description

Part of stackabletech/issues#238

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• Changes are OpenShift compatible
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[sbernauer]

BIG TODO: Currently this PR adds the field to v1alpha1 and v1alpha2. We need to discuss what our strategy with breaking changes and CRD versioning is.
Just to throw a random idea in: We might want to actually release this as v1alpha3 to not crash existing deployments (which kind of is the point of CRD versioning)

[sbernauer]

Suggested change